Being a parent is the most important job you’ll ever have.
However, as rewarding a job as it is, it certainly isn’t an easy one. Not only is being a parent difficult but doing it on your own makes it that much harder.
It can be a lot. At times, it may feel like too much.
Don’t worry! There are plenty of steps you can take to improve the quality of your life both financially and emotionally.
If someone asked you as a single parent, “What do you wish you had more of?” It would come as no surprise if you said, “Time and money.”
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No matter how you use them, there are only so many hours in a day. When you factor in getting your kid ready for school, getting ready for work, going to work, working, picking your kid up from school, helping with homework, cooking dinner, getting the little one ready for bed and preparing to do it all over again the next day; free time may seem like a foreign concept.
Here are some things you can do to make the most out of the little time you do have.
Get Up Earlier
Wait! Hear me out… I know by the time your head hits the pillow, the idea of taking it off again is a physically painful one.
Sleep is great, but once you’re awake, you’re awake. Instead of rolling back over and begging the powers that be for 5 more minutes, get up for some quality “Me time.” As a bonus, it will most likely come with some peace and quiet.
On the other hand, you could use that extra time to tackle any chores you want to get done and enjoy being able to slow your day down.
Make the Most of Your Lunch Hour
You might be afraid it comes off as anti-social. But, with just about every other minute of your day scheduled and regulated. Everyone needs a break from people. Treating your lunch hour like a micro-vacation can do wonders for your sanity.
Go for a walk, listen to some music, watch a TV show you like, whatever you want. It’s all your time.